Firm Commentary

When couples think about intimacy, finances aren’t usually the first thing that comes to mind. But your money story—how you grew up with money, what you fear, what you value, and what you hope for—is deeply connected to how you approach life together.

Understanding each other’s money story can transform how you communicate, make decisions, and navigate challenges. And February is the perfect month to lean into that deeper conversation.

• Your Money Story Shapes Your Habit

We bring our history and values into our deepest relationships. When it comes to money, some people value security because they grew up with scarcity; others take bold risks because opportunity was always encouraged. Neither is right or wrong—but both deserve understanding. Sharing our stories can help build empathy and reduce frustration when it comes to chartering a financial path together. 

• Financial Intimacy Leads to Better Decision-Making 

When you know what your spouse or partner values most and the “why”—experiences, stability, flexibility, generosity—financial planning can become energizing instead of stressful. Creating financial intimacy can make it easier to compromise, plan, and move forward together, where saving, spending, and investing suddenly feel more like a partnership than a negotiation.

• Becoming a More Resilient Team

Every couple faces financial stress at some point, even if it’s just deciding how to spend or save a windfall. The ones who navigate it well are usually the ones who have built emotional and financial trust before the storms hit. Understanding each other’s story strengthens that foundation.

Let us help you take a step toward understanding each other better and building a financial future that reflects who you are individually and where you want to go together. https://www.connected-wealth.com/next-steps.